{"id":11,"date":"2023-01-06T11:39:02","date_gmt":"2023-01-06T11:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/motherhoodincolor.com\/?p=11"},"modified":"2023-01-06T11:39:02","modified_gmt":"2023-01-06T11:39:02","slug":"bag-lady","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motherhoodincolor.com\/?p=11","title":{"rendered":"Bag Lady"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>By: Jennifer Carrie<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBreast is best!\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s natural!\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a special bonding moment!\u201d&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve heard it all..&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and I believed it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it was one thing I knew for sure, I was <strong>definitely<\/strong> breast feeding my baby!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But wait. (<em>fast forward to baby boy arriving)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One week in and my baby was not latching appropriately. <em>All this boob &#8211; and &#8211; he ain\u2019t latching?!<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His pediatrician even mentioned \u201csupplementing with formula\u201d *insert dramatic gasp*. That was NOT an option!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I went home and <strong><em>pumped like a mad woman<\/em><\/strong>! And didn\u2019t stop for another 13 months.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was so focused on giving my baby breast milk and NEVER using formula that I just stopped trying to get him to latch. The only problem with that &#8211; my milk supply was not consistent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One day I might\u2019ve gotten 32 ounces and the next, barely 12 ounces. That left me with one choice:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pump all day, pump all night.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anytime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Any place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Diaper bag,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>pump bag,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>cooler bag,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>work bag.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cYou can\u2019t hurry uppppp, you got too much stuuuuuuff.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thought of my supply dropping caused more stress than my first-time-mom self had.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, BISH YOU GUESSED IT- back down goes my supply.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>See the thing about exclusively pumping is, if you don\u2019t pump and produce milk, your baby doesn\u2019t eat. If your baby doesn\u2019t eat, he doesn\u2019t live. <em>So, you\u2019re telling me these hoots are responsible for keeping my baby alive?!,Got it! No pressure.&nbsp; (cue\u2026 ALL the pressure)&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While I am super proud of myself for being able to provide breast milk for my baby for 13 whole months, I will admit:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was very stressful.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Very time consuming.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to be totally honest, it contributed to a lot of anxiety.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, to any of my fellow \u201cBag Ladies\u201d out there who may be struggling like I was &#8211;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201clet it go, let it go, let it go, let it go\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Please hear me when I say\u2026 <strong>Fed is best!<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether that be by formula or breast milk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Never let a blog, \u201cexpert\u2019s option\u201d or local housewife tell you what\u2019s best for your baby.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBetcha love can make it better.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>JC<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By: Jennifer Carrie \u201cBreast is best!\u201d&nbsp; \u201cIt\u2019s natural!\u201d&nbsp; \u201cIt\u2019s a special bonding moment!\u201d&#8230; I\u2019ve heard it all..&nbsp; and I believed it.&nbsp; If it was one thing I knew for sure, I was definitely breast feeding my baby!&nbsp; But wait. (fast forward to baby boy arriving) One week in and my baby was not latching appropriately. 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